The main point of this sermon is to encourage a redefinition of self-control, particularly within a religious context, and to emphasize that self-control should not be seen as a mere discipline but as a means of connecting with God. Pastor Mikel suggests that self-control can be a way to seek God’s guidance, allowing Him to shape one’s responses to life’s challenges. By doing so, individuals can cultivate other spiritual fruits and deepen their relationship with God. The sermon also highlights the limitations of traditional ideas of self-control and urges the congregation to view it as a delightful invitation to spend time with the Divine Trinity.